Who is Michelle
Where I live
I now live in Kingsville, Ontario (Canada). I was going to live in Windsor, Ontario, but after realizing how deathly polluted it is (1 of 2 cities that THE most polluted in Canada), I found a place about 35 minutes from Windsor that is lovely. My first time being out in the country & while I love Windsorites to death, my health has to come first. The city was killing me literally.
I am still open to relocating for the right person/people, but that can't come to fruition for another 3 years when my son graduates from high school. There has been enough moving around, he needs to be stable in this school. While I don't like long distance relationships, for the right person I'd consider it knowing we'd be making arrangements for 3 years hence.
Unfortunately I've become anti Canadian if you can believe that.
I'm actually going to be starting a blog detailing how the States gives its citizens sooo much more than the Canadian government does.
At first I was naive & didn't understand what was going on, but as I began to tell Americans the things I was going through, they were shocked at what or how the Canadian government gives/treats us, & I don't believe for ONE minute that it has anything to do with the US having more people over there. I feel that is just an excuse.
This doesn't mean my favourite place to move to is the US, it just means Canada is probably no longer going to be the country I will be living in 3-4 years from now.
One thing is for certain, warmer climates (70-75 degrees) is my ideal climate.
Who am I?
As you will soon read more, I'm a spiritually conscious (please don't confuse this with religion), biamorous, & a polyamorous woman. I am 42 years old (07-15-08) & my birthday is on November 20th.
I'm constantly told I look & sound younger than my years, but you have to be the judge of course.
What I look like physically
I am 4'10 1/2" in height & no, I don't care how tall you are because everyone is usually taller than myself & no, I have no issues regarding my height other than I can't stand having to alter clothes all the time, but I have gotten used to it by now. ![]()
I have long dark brown curly hair with red highlights & a few natural gray natural ones that keep sprouting all over the place. How lucky I am.
LOL! I have dark brown eyes & weigh approximately 150 lbs., which is not my normal weight, but is the weight I'm at right now & I accept it.
Now just because I accept it doesn't mean I'm not working on my health, & that's both physically & emotionally.
As you already know, I try to eat very healthy food, so contrary to what most ignorant people think, not all overweight people can't stop eating, or eat junk. There are a myriad of reasons why people gain weight & I'm proof positive of that. Stress is something I am working on & it's the root cause of illnesses, that is a FACT.
I look ethnic... Spanish, Italian or Iranian, but am none of these nationalities.
My views on Pics
For me physical attraction & chemistry is key to me being intimate with someone. On the other hand, you could be the most gorgeous person around physically, & if we don't click on most of the other levels, I couldn't even force myself to be intimate with you because I know I would be going against my grain. When it comes to pics, a lot of people look either better or worse in person then what their pics reflect. For me, pics are just a quick "yes, there's an attraction physically" or "no, there is not" and your pic in no way assures me that I will still be attracted to you once we meet. That's why I feel pics are largely abused online, or people are just ignorant about these things. Remember, I've been online dating for years, I know the ins & outs & should have written a book on it already.
While that physical attraction is necessary, I'm seeking people who look for way more than that.
Now please continue on to more on who I am & what kind of a person I seek...
- Why I Screen On The Net
- My Introduction
- My Spiritual History
- Who I Am
- My Interests
- Extra Words For Couples
Quote
The entire Universe is set up to produce wanting within you! You cannot squelch wanting. You are born wanters. Wanting is a good thing. Write that down in big letters: WANTING IS A VERY GOOD THING!
Abraham-Hicks
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Last updated 15-Jul-08

